That’s a good question, Stephanie. Sometimes it is hard to know, isn’t it? Having good friends is very important. Everyone should have a few of them. But here’s how to tell if someone is a friend or not. Think of each friend and then answer these questions: 1. Would she take up for you if someone spoke badly about you? 2. Is she honest? 3. Does she usually do the right thing? 4. Does your friend lift you up & make you feel good about yourself? 5. Is she kind to you and others? 6. Does she listen to what you have to say? 7. Does she respect your opinion? 8. Does your friend congratulate your accomplishments? 9. Are you proud to call her your friend? 10. Is she helpful when you need her to be? Number 1-5 have to be “Yes.” These are non-negotiable points to a friendship. If you can answer “Yes” to most of the last 5 questions, then she’s definitely a friend. Keep her around and treat her well. Remember, no one is perfect. If you can’t answer “Yes” to most of these points and you still want her to be a friend, you may want to tell her. Also, make sure you’re being the best friend you can be also. Remember the Golden Rule of life. I’m glad you asked! Mrs. D.